Monday, October 10, 2011

LONELINESS

From last few days I was thinking of writing something about this thing LONELINESS.
I am not quite sure how to start it but I'll like to say that everybody feels it once or more than that in their lives.
But what is the most important thing about being alone?
The problem is that every single person can have their own perception of this thing. For some of us its a positive thing and for others its a negative thing.
But my view is that loneliness is a very important thing. Loneliness is the opportunity to know what you are, to know what you think or what you can/want to be.
Loneliness is a blessing for the strong and curse for the weak.
People who are weak can't stay alone. I am not saying that everybody who can't stay alone is weak but there are some points when  we can't pinpoint the reason for such things.
The most important point which I can add here is that the people who are put into jail because it started with the same thought that loneliness is itself a punishment for the weak and all the criminals are weak.
May be my reason may have some flaws but my view is quite strong. Not everybody is strong enough to face this loneliness. Only the people who have a pure heart and strong will can face this situation.
The worst thing about being alone is that the affect of being alone can't be seen instantly, these things show their affect by the time and most important thing is that these changes don't come visible but their affect stays for a long time and the unavoidable thing is that you can't change it in any case.
All I want to say is that try not to be alone, be with someone your family, friends or even a well wisher is good to be with.
Loneliness is a poison and you never know where its going to hit you.
Love